你有没有发现这样一个现象:聊天时,每个人都想聊自己。当你在东指西画地大谈:“昨天晚上,我去倒垃圾的时候,前男友正好开车经过我面前,我额头刚好长了两颗大‘豆豆’……”当你这样废话连篇,而你对面的人,却认真地睁着眼睛看着你,专注而关心的时候,你会觉得这个人是你最上道的朋友,是你最想倾吐心事的对象。反过来,当你自己想要被别人喜欢的时候,你只要把别人放在你自己的位置上来想,那就轮到你来扮演这个“最上道”的朋友 Did you find such a phenomenon: Everyone wants to chat when chatting. When you talk in the east and west, “Last night, when I went to empty the trash, my ex-boy just drove past me, and my forehead just got two big peas ...” When you do this nonsense Lianpian, and you across the people, but seriously open your eyes looking at you, focus and care about, you will think this person is your best friend, is the object you most want to pour your mind. Conversely, when you want to be liked by others, you just want to put others in your own place and think about it, then it is your turn to play this “best” friend