在诊室里,前来咨询的父母刚谈完小孩的问题,夫妻俩就不自觉地争执起来——“我觉得主要还是你太宠他了,什么都迁就他。”爸爸忿忿地说。妈妈很不服气,马上反驳:“什么迁就?难道应该像你一样,走了一天的路,连个麦当劳也不让吃?”……我听着他们的对话,心里已经找到了他们家孩子行为问题的确切原因。突然,做爸爸的问我:“医生,你说说,我们到底谁的方法对?”这个问 In the clinic, the counseling parents just talked about the issue of children, the couple unconsciously argued - “I think the main thing is that you spoil him, and everything to accommodate him,” said his father angrily. Mom is very unconvinced, immediately refuted: “What to accommodate? Should be like you, walked the road for a day, even a McDonald’s do not eat?” ... ... I listened to their dialogue, my heart has found their children’s behavior The exact cause of the problem. Suddenly, my father asked me: “Doctor, you talk about, who are we in the end right?” This question