恭维与赞美 表面看来，恭维与赞美都是称赞别人，说别人的好话，二者似乎并无区别，其实，它们有着本质的不同。 首先，恭维者总是怀有某种目的和企图，他所说的那一套“好话”，只是抛出去的诱饵，以吸引对方上钩，从而达到自己的某种目的，满足自己的某种需要。一旦目的 Compliment and Compliment On the surface, complimenting and complimenting both praise others and say good things to others. There does not seem to be any difference between them. In fact, they are essentially different. First of all, the compliment always has a purpose and an attempt. The “good words” he refers to are just bait thrown to attract each other to achieve their own purpose and to satisfy one’s own certain need. Once the purpose