刘奶奶特别爱关心别人,遇到邻居家发生矛盾或遇到麻烦,她经常主动上门去劝导,说情讲理。如果帮不上对方的忙她会老惦记着,甚至闷闷不乐。可她不知道很多时候别人更愿意自己解决问题。她的热心有时还会帮倒忙,惹人反感,这让刘奶奶很是烦恼。——读者张女士像刘奶奶这样过度为他人操心、情绪容易受人影响的情况,在心理学上称为“心理卷入程度过高”。心理卷入程度过高的人总把自己和周围环境联系在一起,认为别人的事都是自己的事,导致烦恼多、操心多,情绪波动 Grandma Liu especially cares about others and encounters conflicts or problems in her neighbor’s home. She often takes the initiative to come and persuade her and speak honestly. If you can not help each other’s busy she will always remember, even depressed. But she does not know that many people are more willing to solve their own problems. Her zeal can sometimes help out, disgusting, which makes her very upset. - Reverend Zhang Ms. Zhang is so over for others to worry about, emotions easily affected by the situation, in psychology called “psychological involvement too high ”. People with high levels of psychological involvement always associate themselves with the surrounding environment, believing that everything else is their own business, causing more problems, more worries and mood swings