小花从家里搬出来住了。她父母家房子不小,但她亍愿在外面租房子住。“一回家看到我妈的脸色,就觉得人生好难。”她对我说。我特别理解小花。当我们看到母亲不高兴,难免会想办法让她开心,或者至少想办法弄清楚她为什么不开心,否则总觉得自己欠她的。而糟糕的是,有些母亲,你似乎永远没有办法让她高兴起来。作为一个在“妈妈经常不高兴”的家庭成长的小孩儿,我对于童年最深刻的印象就是母亲一板脸,全家阴云密布。很长一段时间,我都是讨好型人格,不敢表达自己的需要,尤其不敢拒绝别人,特别擅于察颜观色,对于别人的情绪很敏感,总担心是自己惹人家不高兴。 Flowers moved out of the house. Her parents house is not small, but she is willing to rent a house outside. “When I came home to see my mom’s face, I felt that life was hard. ” She told me. I especially understand the flower. When we see the unhappy mother, we will inevitably find ways to make her happy, or at least try to find out why she is not happy, or always feel that she owes her. And to make matters worse, some mothers, you never seem to be able to make her happy. As a child growing up in a family whose mothers are often unhappy, my most impressed childhood was my mother’s face and the whole family overcast. For a long time, I was pleasing personality, did not dare to express their own needs, in particular, did not dare to refuse others, especially good at observing Yan color, very sensitive to the emotions of others, always worried that they make people unhappy.