每一年都有那么几个预料之外的人,通过预料之外的方式联系到我,提出一些预料之内的要求,譬如能不能找关系让孩子上个好的幼儿圆、小学、高中,甚至考研的也在打听能不能找人运作一下。每一次我都很诚恳地解释,自己只是一个在大学教书的蚁族,不认识什么大人物,真的没有那个能力帮上忙。他们都很怀疑地冷笑:老同学,你好歹一个大学老师,怎么就不会认识小学、高中甚至高校的人呢?你们不就是一个教育系统的吗?我理解他们的焦灼和无助,但就是不能明白他们的逻辑。但为了弥补我的歉疚感,每一次我都很诚心地祝祷:愿你们都能心想事成。但又不停怀疑,如果做不到力所能及的洒脱,顺其自然的超脱, Every year, there are so few unexpected people who reach out to me through unexpected ways and make some unexpected requests. For example, can we find a relationship that allows children to be good children in round, elementary and middle schools, Even postgraduate study is also asking people to find someone to operate. Every time I have sincerely explained that I was just an ants who teach in college, do not know what the big man, really do not have the ability to help. They are very suspiciously sneer: old classmates, you are whatever the outcome, a university teacher, why not know primary, high school and even college people? You are not an educational system? I understand their anxiety and helplessness, but that is Can not understand their logic. But to make up for my guilt, every time I sincerely wish my prayer: May you all come to mind. However, they kept doubting them that if they could not do their best to be free and easy,