故事一“老师,您为什么不发脾气呢?”一天,班上一个小孩问我:“老师,您为什么不发脾气呢?”“你觉得什么时候老师应该发脾气呢?”我没有直接回答。“比如说同学们闹的时候,有些人吵架的时候……”她边想边慢慢地说着,我微笑着注视她。等她说完了,我再问:“你觉得我发脾气了,问题就解决了,大家就都变乖了变优秀了,都会自我管理了吗?”“不会!”这次她毫不犹豫地回答。 One day, a child in the class asked me: “Teacher, why do not you lose your temper?” “When do you think teachers should lose their temper?” “I did not answer directly. ”For example, when students are downtown, when some people quarrel ... “ She said while thinking slowly, I smile at her. When she finished, I asked again: ”Do you think I am angry, and the problem is solved, we are better behaved better, will self-management yet? “ ”Not! " This time She answered without hesitation.