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在一次大型演讲会场,一位知名的社会学家和心理学家这样说:“如果现在有一位著名演艺明星来到我们面前,任何一个人拿着一只500倍的放大镜来观看这位明星的脸庞,一定都非常失望,因为我们所看到的将是坑坑洼洼、凹凸不平的一张脸;但现在如果每个人拿着望远镜看远处的高山,我们将会看到青山绿水,郁郁葱葱,仿佛人间仙境,令人流连忘返。”在人际关系中,有人总是拿着放大镜看别人,令对方原形毕露,显得一无是处,也使得自己无法信任他人,交到朋友。相对的,有的人是拿着望远镜,始终都能欣赏到别人
At a large lecture venue, a well-known sociologist and psychologist said: "If there is now a famous acting star coming to us, any one of them will take a 500x magnifying glass to watch the star Face, must have been very disappointed, because we will see a bumpy, bumpy face; but now if everyone is holding a telescope to see the distant mountains, we will see green mountains, lush, In the interpersonal relationship, someone always holds a magnifying glass to see others, making the other party devoid of any appearance and making oneself unable to trust others and make friends. Relatively, some people are holding telescopes and can always enjoy others