“对西方人来说,一个观点只要逻辑上讲通了,往往就能认可。对中国人来说,一个观点在逻辑上正确还不够,它同时必须合乎人情,实际上,合乎人情,即近情比合乎逻辑更重要。”初读林语堂先生的这段话便有一种强烈的共鸣。随着阅历的增加,越发的感触到人情的“味道”。甚至有许多完全不合理的事情,在关系面前变成了合理。 For Westerners, an opinion is often recognized as long as it is logically accepted. For a Chinese, a view that is logically correct is not enough, and at the same time it must conform to humankind. In fact, Intimacy is more logical than logical. “” There was a strong resonance with this passage of Mr. Lin Yutang. With the increase of experience, the more people feel the “flavor”. There are even many completely unreasonable things that have become reasonable before the relationship.