时下,常听到某些握有一定实权的人士说:“唉!三番五次地约请咱,再拒绝实在说不过去了!人家非得表示一下心意,要不收下,对方真要翻脸了,盛情难却啊!”类似的话听多了,逐渐引起了我的思索。本人工作多年,屈指算来,亲戚朋友、同乡、同事、同学也不少,但很少有人请我,对我表示一下“心意”的就更少得可怜了。难道是本人不讲情义、不够意思吗?似乎也不是,大家对我的评价是:人很 Nowadays, people who have some real power are often told to say, “Oh! I asked again and again again and again, I really can not justify it! People have to express their intention or not to accept it. ”Listen to similar words, and gradually aroused my thinking. My work for many years, flexor’s calculations, relatives and friends, fellow citizens, colleagues, students are also many, but few invited me to say “what I want” to be even less pitiful. Does it mean I do not care about feelings, not mean enough? Does not seem to be, everyone is my evaluation is: very