表面上看,这是一个“啃老”的案例,司空见惯,读者都会斥责不求上进的孩子,对母亲抱以同情,但是细究起来,我们会越来越清晰地看到孩子的无辜和母亲的残忍。一切为了孩子2016年7月12日,谭女士第一次来到我的心理诊所。她35岁,是一位全职妈妈,家住上海徐汇区,丈夫是做餐饮生意的,家境殷实,儿子隆隆12岁,上小学六年级,学习成绩中等。谭女士告诉我,隆隆1岁半的时候,因为要帮助丈夫经营酒店,她请了一个保姆照顾儿子,没想到保姆 On the surface, this is a case of “eating the old”. It is commonplace for readers to scold children who are not motivated and sympathize with their mothers. However, when we look closely, we will see more clearly the child’s innocence and Mother’s cruel. Everything for Kids July 12, 2016, Ms. Tan came to my psychology clinic for the first time. She is 35 years old and is a full-time mother who lives in Xuhui District, Shanghai. Her husband is a catering business with a well-to-do family. His son is 12 years old, has a sixth grade in elementary school and has a medium academic record. Ms. Tan told me that when she was 1 and a half years old, she asked a nanny to take care of her son because she was going to run the hotel. She did not expect a nanny