每个人的真正自我都是有磁性的,对别人具有强大的影响力和感染力,通常说某人“个性很有魅力”,其实是指他没有压抑自我的创造性和具有表现自己的勇气。“不良个性”也可称为“被压抑个性”,其特征是不能表现内在的创造性自我,因而显得停止、避免、禁锢、束缚。受压抑的个性约束真正的自我表现,使个体总有理由拒绝表现自己、害怕成为自己,把真正的自我紧锁在内心深处。正如前面所述,每个人自身都蕴藏有无限的潜力,只是未被激发或受到压抑,对事情过于谨慎和“考虑”得太多,就会限制了个性的发挥和表现。如果你充分相信自己有能力进行任何活动,那么,你实际上就能获得成功。一且你敢于探索那些陌生的领域, Each person’s real self is magnetic, has a strong influence and appeal to others, usually say someone “charming personality”, in fact, he did not suppress self-creativity and courage to express themselves. “Bad personality” can also be called “pent-up personality,” characterized by failure to manifest the inner creative self and thus appears to be stopped, avoided, imprisoned and shackled. The pent-up personality constrains true self-expression, leaving individuals with a reason to refuse to show themselves, to fear becoming themselves, and to hold true self in their hearts. As mentioned earlier, each person has its own unlimited potential, but is not excited or repressed, too cautious about things and “too much consideration”, it will limit the performance and performance of personality. If you fully believe that you are capable of doing any activity, then you can actually be successful. Once you dare to explore those unfamiliar areas,