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“这个世界造得不好,爱人的不被人爱,被爱的不爱人,爱又能被爱的又有分手的一天。”罗曼罗兰的这段话,虽然不一定就是真理,但是却也颇能描绘出男女之间充满悲欢离合的爱情辛酸。爱与被爱之间若是不能配合,那当然令人扼腕;爱又能被爱却仍然充满波折,却是使人觉得无奈。分析其原因:当我们愈爱一个人、对一个人愈好的时侯,对她的期待一定愈高;而当我们对一个人期待愈高时,失望的可能性一定会愈大。所以,期待夫妻或是情侣爱河永浴,一辈子相处都不生事端也就未免失之天真。成熟的心态或是安全的方法应该是:夫妻两人都知道如何去面对困难,都愿意同心去解决问题。
“This world is not made well, lover is not loved, lover is not lover, love can be loved another break up day. ” Romans Roland this passage, though not necessarily the truth, but It is also quite able to depict love and bitterness between men and women full of joys and sorrows. If love and being loved can not be matched, it is of course a pity; love can be loved but still full of twists and turns, but it makes people feel helpless. Analyze the reason: When we love one more person, the better one looks to her, the higher he is, and the more we expect one person, the more likely we are to be disappointed. So, looking forward to a couple or a couple love forever bath, never get along with life will not be immune to naive. Mature attitude or safety should be: both husband and wife know how to deal with the difficulties, are willing to work together to solve the problem.