1.我们要么出去吃饭,要么出去洗浴。这本来也没什么,在由人组成的关系网中,吃饭或洗澡是增进感情的重要手段之一。但往往,有些饭局,我们会一掷千金,有些浴场,也是动辄千儿八百。这些钱非得要这么花才能增进感情吗?也许未必,大多数时候,纯粹是为了义气,抑或是显摆。但是消费完出门回家,两块钱的停车费不想掏,给老婆买个包包心疼不已,至于给父母寄点孝顺钱的事也常常忘记。这是为什么? We either go out to eat or go out for a bath. It would have nothing to do with it. In the network of people, eating or bathing is one of the most important ways to enhance feelings. But often, in some dinner sets, we will throw up big bucks, some baths, and hundreds of thousands of children at every turn. Do you have to spend such money to improve your feelings? Maybe not, most of the time, purely for loyalty or suppression. However, spending out of doors to go home, two dollars parking fee do not want to dig, to his wife to buy a bag distressed endless, as to give parents a point filial piety money often forget. Why is that?