心语姐姐:我和男友是经人介绍认识的,当时他在军校读研究生,我们算得上一见钟情,彼此的价值观也很相同。现在的问题是,他研究生毕业后留在了部队,而我在北京,按照他的情况,至少得在部队待八九年甚至更长的时间,如果我们结婚, Xinyu Sister: My boyfriend and I were introduced to understand, when he was a graduate student at the military academy, we count as love at first sight, each other’s values ​​are the same. The problem now is that after graduating from his postgraduate studies, he remained in the army and I was in Beijing, at his own pace, at least for the time being until 1989 or even longer for troops. If we get married,