《淮南子·道应训》记 载了一个叫公仪休的人 “嗜鱼拒鱼”的故事:公仪 休相鲁而嗜鱼。一国献 鱼,公仪休弗受。其弟子 谏曰:“夫子嗜鱼,弗受何 也?”答曰:“夫唯嗜鱼,故 弗受。夫受鱼而免于相, 虽嗜鱼,不能自给鱼;毋 受鱼而不免于相,则能长 自给鱼。” 公仪休明明嗜鱼,却 断然拒鱼,这在别人看来 似乎矛盾得有点难以理 解。但公仪休自有分寸, 他深知“君子爱财(鱼), 取之有道”的道理,自己 虽然嗜鱼,但万万不能因 此就轻易接受不义之 “鱼”。自己身居相位,俸 禄不薄,“嗜鱼”这个口腹 之欲基本可以自给,完全 没有必要再接受他人的 “好意”而冒丢官弃职的 “Huainanzi Road should be trained” recorded a man named Gong Hugh “fish refuse to fish,” the story: the public off the hook and fish. One country offers fish, male instrument Huifu by. His disciples remonstrance said: “Master Fuyu fish, what?” Said: “husband only fishes, so Fu Fu. Fu by the fish from the phase, although the fish, can not self-supply fish; In the phase, you can grow self-sufficient fish. ”The public Ming Hu Ming fish addicted, but categorically refused to fish, it seems to others seems somewhat contradictory a bit difficult to understand. However, due to the public sense of propriety, he knows very well that “a gentleman loves money (fish) and takes the right way.” Although he himself is a fish-attractor, he must not easily accept the “fish” of injustice. He lives in phase, salary is not thin, “fish” is basically the self-sufficiency of the mouth, there is no need to accept other's “good intentions” and take the discarded officer abandoned