无论是对孩子,还是对父母,“处罚”这个词本身就很有威慑力。处罚是导致教育失败的危险因素,还是对孩子的行为进行有效规范的手段?有没有更好的处罚方式?宋佳对九岁的儿子青青有些无可奈何:同学不小心把他的文具盒碰到地上,他就大喊大叫,上去一脚就把同学踢倒在地。每当儿子闯下祸,宋佳总是给他摆事实讲道理:你有没有不小心碰倒别人东西的时候?你愿意别人说你是故意的吗?这种设身处地、换位思考的教育,换来的只是儿子似听非听的样子。 Whether it is for children or parents, the word “punishments” is itself a deterrent. Punishment is a risk factor leading to failure of education, or children’s behavior effectively regulate the means? There is no better way to punish? Song Jia nine-year-old son of some helplessness: Students accidentally hit his stationery box on the ground, He shouted, went up to kick the classmate kicked to the ground. Whenever his son broke a curse, Song Jia always put him the truth: you have accidentally knocked down someone else’s time? Do you want others to say that you are intentional? This place, empathy education, change It’s only the son who listens to non-audible appearances.