本文探讨了女性主义关于家庭和身份问题的思想,考察了米妮·布鲁斯·布拉特等人对家庭所具有的传统价值的批判,以及艾利斯·马瑞恩·扬在其重要论文《家庭:女性主义对一个主题的多种看法》中所捍卫的家庭的四种价值,即安全性、个体化、隐私性、维系性。作者认为,应当超越对家庭传统价值的批判和捍卫,上升至对这种二分法本身的批判,并由此提出了超越这种二分法的四种新价值。 This article explores feminist thinking on family and identity issues and examines the critique of the family’s traditional values ​​by Minnie Bruce Blatter et al., And in his keynote paper, Family: Feminism The Four Values ​​of a Family, as Defended in a Variety of Views on a Theme, namely, Security, Individuality, Privacy, and Maintenance. The author believes that we should go beyond the critique and defend of traditional family values ​​and rise to the critique of this dichotomy itself, and put forward four new values ​​that surpass this dichotomy.