关爱式个性化教育的内涵是以学生自主学习为主,教师引导为辅的教育方式。在关爱式个性化教育中,教师应对学生施加母亲般的呵护、关心与表扬,父亲般的严厉、塑造与管理。本文从个性化教育的几个方面,探讨了如何提高中小学生自主与合作学习能力的问题。 The connotation of caring personalized education is based on the independent study of students, supplemented by teachers’ guidance. In caring personalized education, teachers should impose mothers’ care, care and praise on their students, and their father’s harshness, shape and management. This article from several aspects of personalized education, explored how to improve the ability of primary and secondary students to learn independently and cooperatively.