家庭环境是塑造孩子健康人格的第一环境,是孩子的第一所学校。父母是孩子真正的启蒙老师,对孩子的成长起着特殊的作用。给孩子创设一个宽松愉快的成长环境是每一位父母不可推卸的责任。然而多年的教育实践却告诉我们,家庭教育中确确实实存在着种种误区。例如:对孩子过度溺爱,导致孩子从小养成了攀比的心理和自私的心态;从事过多的社会活动,让孩子远 Family environment is shaping the healthy environment of children’s first environment, is the child’s first school. Parents are children’s real enlightenment teachers and play a special role in children’s growth. To create a relaxed and happy environment for children is an unshirkable responsibility of every parent. However, many years of educational practice tells us that there are indeed misunderstandings in family education. For example: over-spoiling children, leading children to develop a comparisons from the psychological and selfish mentality; engaged in too many social activities, so that children far