如何教育自己的子女茁壮健康地成长,一直是年轻的父母们关心的话题,要在这方面做得出色些,就必须对自己和子女在家庭中的角色有所了解和认识——父亲“父亲”是个社会角色,而每个社会角色都有其特点。作为父亲,显然不能仅仅充当“第二母亲”的角色。心理学研究提示,在遇事果断、气质刚强、开拓创新等多方面父亲比母亲更胜一筹,父亲在子女性别角色的发展方面比母亲所起的作用更大些。儿童在5岁前恋母,对父亲没有过多的需要,5岁左右,就由恋母转移到恋父,尤其是男孩子,必须模仿和学习父 How to educate your children to grow healthily and healthily has always been a topic of concern to young parents. To do a good job in this area, you must understand and recognize the role of yourself and your children in the family - Father “Father ”Is a social role, and each social role has its own characteristics. Obviously, as a father, he can not just act as a “second mother.” Psychological research suggests that fathers are superior to their mothers in many aspects, such as decisiveness, strong temperament, pioneering and innovation, and that their father plays a bigger role than their mothers in the development of their child’s gender roles. Children in the 5-year-old before the Obus, no excessive need for his father, 5 years old, Oedipus transferred to the Electra, especially boys, must imitate and learn the parent