编辑同志:我早年丧偶,独自将一双儿女拉扯成人。一年前,已67岁的我,鉴于自己患有严重高血压和严重哮喘等疾病,而儿女又不在身边,独自生活非常不易,经邻居介绍,与郑某通过“黄昏恋”领取了结婚证。由于我每月甚至每天都必须支付医疗费用,日常生活只能维持在相对低下的水平,更谈不上追求精神上的享受,无奈之下,我曾多次要求儿女向我承担一定赡养费用。但却一再遭到拒绝,理由是我每月可以领取养老金,不应增加子女的压力,且我既然成了郑某的新 Editor’s Comrade: I was widowed early, alone pulling a pair of children adult. A year ago, I was 67 years old. In view of my own serious illness such as high blood pressure and severe asthma, and my children are not around, living alone is not easy. According to the introduction by the neighbors, Zheng got married through “Dusk Love” certificate. As I have to pay for medical treatment on a monthly or even daily basis, my daily life can only be maintained at a relatively low level, let alone my pursuit of spiritual enjoyment. In desperation, I have repeatedly asked my children to take some support to me. However, he was repeatedly rejected on the grounds that I could receive monthly pensions and should not increase the pressure on children. Since I became a new