你到底想要什么?人们总说今天的孩子很幸运,啥都不缺。饭来张口,衣来伸手,满架子的图书,满柜子的玩具,想要点什么,只要不太离谱,大多能得到满足。我却觉得过度餍足的孩子好像失去了更多,其中最糟糕的是失去了饥渴感。对于一个年轻人来说,“给”与“要”所带来的心理体验完全是两回事。如果习惯了被给予,就不知道自己要什么,更意识不到为了获得该付出什么。有部电影里那位父王对太子讲的台词是这样的:“天地万物,朕赐给你,才是你的,你不能抢。”我们当然不鼓吹一个人要有过于贪婪的攫取的欲望,但是如果连“要”的心 What do you want? People always say that today’s children are very lucky, nothing is missing. Rice to open mouth, clothing to reach out, covered books, full cabinet of toys, want something, as long as not outrageous, most can be satisfied. I think over-footed children seem to lose more, the worst of which is the loss of hunger. For a young person, “to ” and “to ” psychological experience brought about two completely different. If used to being given, do not know what they want, but also unconscious in order to obtain what to pay. The movie in which the father spoke to Prince Edward is like this: “All things in heaven and on earth are bestowed upon you and you can not rob them.” Of course we do not preach that someone should have too much greedy seizure Desire, but if you even “want ” heart