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在我生长的农村,打记事起,父母就告诉我和妹妹,家里来了客人在招待用餐时,只能大人陪客,小孩一律不许上桌吃饭,这是习俗,也是一条家规。即使客人带着小孩来,小客人会陪着大人上桌,而主人家的小孩还是不能作陪,要么端着碗坐在灶前吃,要么等到客人走后吃。一年当中,家里总会时不时地来客人,母亲会做些比平常丰盛的饭菜,端到餐桌上来招待他们。作为馋嘴的小孩,当然也想分享一顿美餐。我一直央求父母来客人时,准许我上桌吃饭,可父母就是不答应,似乎这是一条不能破坏的规矩。
In my growing rural areas, remember things from the start, my parents told me and my sister, the family came to the guests in the hospitality dining, only adult guests, children are not allowed to go to the table to eat, this is a custom, but also a rule. Even if the guests come with children, small guests will accompany the adults on the table, but the children of the master’s family can not accompany them, either sitting in front of the bowl with a bowl of food or wait for the guests to go back and eat. During the year, the family always come to guests from time to time, the mother will do more than the usual hearty meals, served on the table to treat them. As a gluttonous child, of course, want to share a meal. When I had begged my parents to come and asked me to eat at dinner, my parents would not agree. It seems that this is an unbreakable rule.