实践中,常令教育者头疼的一个较为普遍的问题是中学生早恋问题。由于对此类问题的措施不当和处理不力,常使教育事倍功半。有些教师,一旦发现哪个学生早恋,就如临大敌,批评、训斥、讽刺、挖苦……造成了师生间思想对立,学生在逆反心理作用下破罐子破摔的严重后果。而有经验的老师,对此往往采取暗示教育的方法。 In practice, one of the more common problems that educators often suffer is the problem of puppy love among middle school students. Due to improper measures and ineffective handling of such problems, education is often less effective. Some teachers, once they find out which students have pups, are on the verge of criticism. They criticize, scold, satire, and sarcasm... and cause serious opposition between teachers and students, and students are able to break jars under the influence of rebellious psychology. Experienced teachers often use hints of education.