一般说来,人总是喜欢听好话的,幼儿更是如此。家长出于对独生子女的过分宠爱,往往会自觉或不自觉地去迎合孩子这种爱听好话的心理。从一时一事的局部来说,孩子听到表扬后可能就“乖”了,显得更可爱了;但从长远说来,过多的、失度的表扬,对幼儿谦逊品德的培养是不利的。孩子听惯了好话,一旦有人说他不好或者指出他的缺点,他会听不进去,会觉得别人“错怪”了他,“不喜欢他。”“人家一直说我好,你怎么说我不好呢?”久而久之,他总是把错处推给别人,推向客观因素,盲目地认为自己“什么都好”,有的还会产生一种妒忌心理。例如,过完寒假,有个小朋友来幼儿园时,带来两个焰火放给大家看,老师说:“某小朋友真好,总是想到别的小朋友。”这时候,有个孩子却说:“我家里也有的呀,有什 In general, people always like to hear good words, especially young children. Parents out of love for the only child, often consciously or unconsciously to cater to children this kind of love listening psychology. From a part-time point of view, children may become “good” when they receive praise, but in the long run, excessive and unfair praise will be detrimental to the training of young children’s humility. Children are accustomed to good words, once someone says he is not good or pointed out his shortcomings, he will not hear it, will feel other people “wrong” him, “I do not like him.” “People always say that I am good, how do you say I Not good? ”Over time, he always put the wrong place to others, to objective factors, blindly think they“ what are good, ”and some will have a jealousy. For example, after a winter vacation, when a child comes to kindergarten, he brings two fireworks to everyone. The teacher said, “A child is a good friend and always thinks of other children.” At this time, a child said, "I There are some at home, what’s there