“妈 ,今天我和孙晓、王红说话时 ,她们都说和爸爸、妈妈无话可说 ,真奇怪。”女儿曾经这样满是疑惑地和我说。诚然 ,当孩子进入初中以后 ,生理渐渐成熟 ,他们常常以“小大人”姿态自居 ,在父母面前 ,易封闭自己 ,不愿把心里话说出来。然而心理的不成熟 ,往往使他们做出一些让 “Mom, when I spoke with Sun Xiao and Wang Hong today, they all said that it was weird to talk to my father and mother,” said the daughter, who was so full of doubts. It is true that when the children enter junior high school, the physiology gradually matures. They often take the position of “little adults” and confine themselves to their parents so that they will not speak out. However, psychological immature, often make them make some make