一天,盛了一碗饭给7岁的儿子吃,孩子却说没有汤匙怎么吃,我让孩子自己去拿汤匙。孩子却对我说:“自己的事情自己做。”言外之意拿汤匙是我的事情,不是他的事情。我询问孩子:“那吃饭是谁的事情,是不是吃到我的肚子里呀?”孩子没有答话,自己跑去拿汤匙了。孩子对“自己的事情自己做”的质疑引起了我的深思。很多时候,我们太过包做 One day, filled with a bowl of rice to the 7-year-old son to eat, the child said no spoon how to eat, I let the children to get their own spoon. The child said to me: “The things they do themselves. ” The implication of spoon is my thing, not his thing. I asked the child: “That who is eating things, is not eating my stomach it? ” The children did not answer, ran away with their own spoon. My child’s questioning of “doing his own thing” aroused my deep thoughts. In many cases, we do too much