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在我国,随着计划生育这一基本国策的不断落实,独生子女越来越多,在今后一个相当长的时期间,独生子女将会占据儿童的相当高的比例。目前,在许多大中城市,独生子女在幼儿园中约占98％以上,不少班级独生子女问题已成为人们普遍关心的一个问题,并有许多人为此忧心忡忡。 近年来,有些人把今天的独生子女称作“小皇帝”。他们在家庭中的表现大致相象:任性自私,要什么就得给什么;能言善语,象个小大人;性格不是过于活泼开朗,就是过于胆小害怕;在集体生活中不合群;挑食偏食、挑穿,依赖性强、懒散。同时也有许多人研究发现,独生子女也有许多优秀的品格:他们待人真挚热情;活泼开朗;注重友谊,正直;思维敏捷活跃。庄独生子女中为什么同时存在如此不同的品格呢?蚀生子女是问题儿童吗?独生子女的心理发展是否遵循儿童心理发展的普遍规律?
In our country, with the continuous implementation of the basic national policy of family planning, more and more single children are born. Only a single child will occupy a fairly high proportion of children for a considerable period of time in the future. At present, in many large and medium-sized cities, only-child children account for more than 98% of the total number of kindergartens. Many single-child children have become a common concern and many are worried about this. In recent years, some people call today’s only child “Little Emperor.” Their performance in the family is roughly the same: selfishness and selfishness, whatever you have to give; what you can say is kind words, like a young man; character is not too lively and cheerful, you are too timid and afraid; Partial eclipse, pick through, strong dependence, lazy. At the same time, many people also found that only-child children also have many excellent characters: they are sincere and enthusiastic; others are lively and cheerful; they are friendly and upright; their thinking is agile and active. Why does the only child in Zhuang have such different characters at the same time? Is the eclipse child the problem child? Does the one child’s psychological development follow the universal law of children’s psychological development?