婚姻正在变成一件日渐困难的事情。当然,这并非指向所有人,而是指向某些特定的人,比如小说中的尤秀、尤美、耿建,都属此列。客观而言,随着男女平等意识的建立,随着婚恋自由权利的取得,男女两性当事人在自己的婚恋问题上已经有了越来越大的发言权。从理论上说,这种婚恋自由甚至能指向一个可以明确可知的前景——普天下有情人终成眷属,终 Marriage is becoming an increasingly difficult thing. Of course, this is not for everyone but for certain people, such as You Xiu, You Mei and Geng Jian in the novel. Objectively speaking, with the establishment of a sense of equality between men and women, with the acquisition of the right to freedom of marriage, men and women of both sexes have already had an increasingly bigger say in their own marriage and marriage issues. In theory, this freedom of marriage can even point to a clearly foreseeable future