面质,亦称对峙、对质,是咨询师运用言语反映、描述来访者的感受、想法和行为中存在的明显差异、矛盾冲突和含糊的信息。所以,如果用“以彼之矛攻彼之盾”来形容面质是再好不过了。面质虽然带有攻击性,或者说具有微弱的指责意味,但相比之下,来访者的矛盾导致其困境的事实却更为重要。咨询师有责任选择恰当的时机,用恰当的语言表达出来,使矛盾意识化,激发来访者探索,引领他迈向更深刻的自我认识、更积极的行为和自我成长。 Facial quality, also known as confrontation, confrontation, is the consultant to reflect the use of words to describe the visitor’s feelings, thoughts and behavior of the obvious differences, conflicts and vague information. So, if you use the “spear to attack the other’s shield,” to describe the surface quality is no better. Although the facial features are offensive or have weak criticisms, in contrast, the fact that contradictions among visitors cause their dilemma is even more important. Consultants have the responsibility to choose the right time, expressed in the appropriate language, to make contradictions conscious and inspire visitors to explore and lead him toward deeper self-awareness, more positive behavior and self-growth.