人的许多差异都是在比较之后产生的。生活中常常有些人愁眉苦脸,事事埋怨,其实,就是比较造成的。儿童时期,我们与兄弟姐妹“比较”谁更被爸妈疼爱;学生时期,我们与同学“比较”谁的分数高;走进社会,我们与同事“比较”谁的待遇高;成家立业,我们与亲戚“比较”谁家的孩子争气……有了比较,就有了计较,有了计较,烦恼也就随之而来。寸有所长,尺有所短,如果我们总想着与人比较,那就永远都比不上。因为永远都有人比你好,不是在这方面,就是在那方面,比较来比较去,最终还是累坏了自己。 Many differences in people are generated after the comparison. Some people in life often frown, complain about everything, in fact, is more caused. Childhood, we and siblings “more ” who is more loved by parents; students, we and students “who ” compared to the high scores; into the community, we and colleagues High; married, we and relatives “comparison ” who’s children go out of their way ... ... have been compared, there have been care about, with care, troubles will follow. Inch has a director, ruler is short, if we always think of comparison with others, it will never compare. Because there are always people better than you, not in this area, in that area, more to compare, eventually tired of himself.