在人际交往中，我们对虚伪的人、事及言、行，常常人人厌之鞭挞之。而对“客气”——那种以牺牲自我利益为前提的有弊无利的所谓“礼貌”．却文日赞合．有口皆碑；甚至有人说它是中华民族的传统美德之一；是豪爽好客、大度、谦虚克已、尊重他人的表现。殊不知．这种所谓”客气 In interpersonal relations, we hypocritically people, things and words, deeds, and often all the disgusting whipping. And to the “polite” - the so-called “politeness” that is based on the pretext of sacrificing self-interest. However, the text match day. It has even been said that it is one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. It is a sense of pride, hospitality, humility, respect for others. As everyone knows. This so-called "polite