生活中像这种“原则”和“感情”的选择题,父母不知做过多少次,但每次都是在两个选项之间犹豫不决。也许,一些简单的家庭故事,会带给你更多的启示。克利夫·巴罗斯是比利布雷汉姆牧师团的领导。一次,他的儿子鲍比和女儿贝蒂做了错事,克利夫警告孩子们,如果下次再犯,就耍用皮带抽打他们。然而,两个孩子根本没把克利夫的话当回事,趁克利夫上班,他俩又故伎重演。克利夫知道后很恼火,但看着孩子们可怜巴巴的样子,又心软起来。毕竟,对自己疼爱的孩子讲原则是件痛苦的事。克利夫把鲍比和贝蒂叫进房间,解下皮带,脱下衬衫。然后光着脊梁跪在床前,让孩子们每人用皮带抽他10下。鲍比和贝蒂哭得很伤心,他们不想捕打自己的父亲,但克利夫说:“咱们有言在先,犯了错误就要受到处罚。但作为父亲,我决定替你们承受。”克利夫坚持要鲍比和贝蒂用力打满20下。两个孩子边打边痛哭不止,比自己受到最严厉的惩罚还难过。从那以后,鲍比和贝蒂非常听话,不是怕被罚,而是他们知道:父亲疼爱他们,但不会因此而忽视他们的错误。 In life, there are multiple choice questions like this “principle” and “feeling”. Parents do not know how many times they have been done, but each time hesitates between the two options. Perhaps, some simple family stories, will give you more inspiration. Cliff Barros is the leader of the Breebrough Regiment. Once, his son Bobby and daughter Betty made a mistake, and Cliff warned the children that they would be beaten with a belt if they were to make another offense. However, the two children did not take Clive’s words seriously and took Clif to work, and they both played the same old tricks. Cliff was very annoyed after knowing, but looking at the children’s pitiful look, but also soft heart. After all, it’s a painful thing to say the principles to your beloved children. Cliff called Bobby and Betty into the room, unbuttoned his belt and took off his shirt. Then knelt barefoot on the back of the bed with the spine, and let the children pump him 10 under his belt. Bobby and Betty cried very sad, they do not want to hunt his own father, but Cliff said: “We have something to say, made a mistake will be punished, but as a father, I decided to bear for you. ” Cliff insisted Bobby and Betty hard to play 20 under. The two children wept over and hit each other, saddened by the harshest penalties they had received. Since then, Bobby and Betty are very obedient, not afraid of punishment, but they know: My father loved them, but will not ignore their mistakes.