我越来越意识到,家长对孩子的批评是需要讲究艺术的,不能太频繁,属于个人日常生活习惯一类的“小毛病”,要本着理解、宽容的态度,不过多地干预。本着这一理念,我对孩子的批评就格外谨慎。儿子看电视时有一个特别的习惯:懒洋洋地半躺半坐在沙发里,两条腿肆虐地伸开去,几乎霸占了大半个客厅,这还不算,还要 I have come to realize more and more that parents’ criticisms of their children need to pay attention to the arts. They should not be too frequent. They are “minor problems” that fall into the daily habits of individuals and should not interfere in any more than they do with understanding and tolerance. In this philosophy, I am extremely cautious about children’s criticism. Son had a special habit of watching television: lazy half-seated half sit on the couch, two legs raging spread to almost occupy most of the living room, this is not too much, but also