据说,一个人离开人世的时候,他的身体比活着的时候轻21克,相当于10张纸、半个鸡蛋或者一枚戒指的分量。这21克,就是我们的灵魂。如果一个人,他的灵魂中苦难的分量太重,他的生命必然沉郁。对那些稚气未脱的孩子而言,尤其如此。我教过这么一个孩子,姑且叫他石头。他喜欢发号施令,甚至经常对同学们动拳头;他喜欢把头发理得很短,下课的时候,把脑袋弯到水龙头下,用冰 It is said that when a person leaves the world, his body is 21 grams lighter than alive, which is equivalent to 10 pieces of paper, half an egg or a ring component. This 21 grams, is our soul. If a man, the weight of suffering in his soul is too heavy, his life must be gloomy. This is especially true for children who are not childish. I have taught such a child, let him call him stone. He likes to give orders and often fists his classmates; he likes to make his hair very short, and when he’s get out of class, bend his head under the tap and use ice