还是在很小的时候,我们常常被训练如何开发左脑(学校里的许多学科,尤其是数理化,都是为了开发左脑而设置),使得我们倾向于认为记忆力好、善于逻辑计算,就是聪明的表现。这样的认知,成年后,让我们在人际交往中吃了大亏。在日常生活中,右脑的发达,往往带给我们意想不到的成功。人际活动中,左脑关注的是表面的现象和逻辑分析,右脑关注直觉及背后的规律。比如,在一次面对面的交流中, At a very young age, we were often trained to develop the left brain (many subjects in school, especially in physics and chemistry, all designed to develop the left brain) so that we tend to think that good memory and good at logic are Smart performance. This recognition, adult, let us eat a big loss in interpersonal communication. In our daily life, the development of the right brain often brings us unexpected success. In interpersonal activities, the left brain focuses on the superficial phenomena and logical analysis, and the right brain focuses on the intuition and the law behind it. For example, in a face-to-face exchange,