挫折是指任何妨碍个体获得快乐或达到预期目的的外部条件。如果他人阻碍了我们做自己喜欢或想要做的事情,他人就是挫折。这种阻碍在给人带来巨大的心理压力与情绪困扰的同时,也给人带来了成长的契机。现代的儿童,家庭中兄弟姐妹减少,家长们最重视的就是幼儿的学习成绩、衣、食、住等,而忽视了幼儿的独立生活能力和向困难挑战的精神,而这些“精 Frustration refers to any external condition that prevents the individual from being happy or achieving the intended purpose. If others prevent us from doing what we like or want to do, others are frustrated. This obstacle gives people enormous psychological pressure and emotional distress, but also gives people an opportunity to grow. Modern children and their families have fewer brothers and sisters. Parents are most concerned about the academic performance, clothing, food and housing of young children, neglecting the independent living skills of young children and challenging the difficult ones. These ”fine"