近些年来,社会上的随礼风越刮越烈,而且种类繁多,数额逐年增加。某些人还巧立名目,借机敛财。除红白喜事外,生日、当兵、乔迁、升学……都得随礼。一般家庭难以承受这沉重的负担,有些老年人更是有苦难言。常听老友抱怨,这月又随了几份礼、手头紧等。随礼虽然都讲究个礼尚往来,可多数随礼人是不情愿的,只能说是碍于面子不得不随。由此可见,随礼随到影响人们正常生活的程度,这也是一种不正之风。老年人要带头抵制这种风气,首先要做到红白喜事要俭办,不宴请,不收礼。面对他人的邀请要婉拒,不可死要面 In recent years, the funeral ritual in society has been sharpening and its variety has increased. The amount has been increasing year by year. Some people also make a name, take the opportunity to keep money. In addition to red and white happy event, birthday, soldier, housewarming, school ... have to follow the ceremony. The average family can not afford this heavy burden, and some elderly people are even more offended. Often listen to old friends complain, this month with a few ceremony, hand tight and so on. Although the courtesy ceremony are reciprocal, but most of the gifts are reluctant, can only say that because of the face had to follow. From this we can see that it is also unhealthy for the ceremony to affect people’s normal life. Older people should take the lead to resist this trend, first of all to be happy event to frugal, do not banquet, do not receive gifts. In the face of other people’s invitation to be declined, must not die