不要妄想一下子做很大的事。一个人如果想20年堆起一座喜马拉雅山,那是不可能实现的,那也会很痛苦。 在生活中,我发现,痛苦当中也有美,而且,这种美更真实、更深刻。 人如果只会从一个角度看问题那就会很容易钻牛角尖。历经坷坎与磨难,我学会了多方面看问题。 三毛是勇敢的,她想像中她的“天国”特别大,她去了,不愿意像我一样做一粒沙子。 Do not try to do big things at once. It would be very painful if one wanted to pile up a Himalayas in 20 years, which would not have been possible. In my life, I found that there are beauty in pain, moreover, the beauty is more real and deeper. If people only look at the problem from one perspective, it will be easy to make a real impact. After many difficulties and difficulties, I learned to look at many issues. San Mao is brave, she imagined her “heaven” is particularly large, she went, do not want to do like me a grain of sand.