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第三者是心智不成熟的人,她们的思想仍停留在少女阶段,很理想化,凭感觉行事。她们在痛苦的同时,又沉醉于自己的爱情。她们觉得为了爱的人牺牲着,痛也是心甘情愿的。这种痛与快乐的结合,对她们来说像是毒品,欲罢不能。典型的第三者形象是这样的:年轻的女人,经济独立,爱上了已婚的男人,并没有想过要拆散他的家庭或者伤害他的妻子,但是也受不了自己的爱情不能见天日,受不了自己爱的男人的家庭光明正大的幸福,而自己却只能旁观,于是矛盾和痛苦着。她们觉得自己才是应该被同情的,才是3人中最痛苦的那个。
The third party is immature people, their thoughts still remain in the stage of adolescence, idealistic, acting on their own feelings. While they are in pain, they indulge in their own love. They think that for the sake of those who love to sacrifice, the pain is also willing. This painful and happy combination, for them, like drugs, unable to stop. A typical third-party image is this: a young woman, economically independent, in love with a married man, did not want to break up his family or hurt his wife, but can not stand his love can not see the sky Day, the man who can not stand the love of their own family was just happy, but their only on the sidelines, so contradictory and painful. They feel that they should be sympathetic, is the most painful of the three.