1.定准目标。让孩子明白他犯了什么错,严重程度如何,有什么危害,切忌无休止重提过去的错处。2.一事一罚。孩子有错,父母的态度要一致,应由一方处罚,不要父亲处罚后母亲还来处罚。3.因性格而罚。如果孩子性格内向,处罚时应尽量温和些,避免因此造成精神创伤。对脾气犟的孩子,切不 1. Set the target. Let the children understand what he did wrong, how serious, what harm, should never endlessly repeat the mistakes of the past. 2. One thing and one penalty. Children wrong, parents should be consistent attitude, should be punished by one party, not to punish the father after the punishment of the mother. 3 due to personality and punishment. If the child is introverted, the punishment should be as mild as possible to avoid causing trauma. Do not temper children