爱面子是男人的本性,若不断地指责他错误或逼他按你的想法去做,会让他自尊心受损,而他也会渐渐远离你。想要抓住他的心,最重要的就是营造出“让他做主”的氛围,引导他心甘情愿地完成你的目的,这样他才会更加爱你、体贴你。男人是热衷掌控、喜好主导的动物。没有男人不爱面子与自尊。当面驳了男人的面子与自尊,否定其想法与价值观,毋宁是向男人宣战,和男人撕破脸。 Loving face is the man’s nature, if constantly accused him of error or forcing him to do what you think, will make him self-esteem damage, and he will gradually away from you. Want to seize his heart, the most important thing is to create a “Let him be the host ” atmosphere, and guide him willingly to accomplish your goal, so he will love you more, considerate of you. Men are keen to control, like dominant animals. No man does not love face and self-esteem. Faced off the man’s face and self-esteem denied their ideas and values, rather to declare war on men, and men torn face.