在一定程度上关心他人对你行为的看法有助于你得到有益的回馈,并有助于你保持稳定的状态。但太在意他人的看法会使你一直停在同一个地方,让你停滞不前,不敢去追求自己真正想要的生活。那么你该怎样处理这个问题?人们其实并不会像你想的那样去看你,或者关注你在做些什么。有的人往往会因为别人的看法而停滞不前。通过我的经验,我发现很大一部分原因是由于在他的脑海中,别人会很关注他到底在想什么和做什么,但实际的情形是他们往往在忙着关心自己的事,并且也会担 To some extent, caring about others’ perceptions about your behavior can help you get useful feedback and help you maintain a steady state. However, too concerned about the views of others will keep you parked in the same place, so that you stagnate, not to pursue their own life you really want. So how do you deal with the problem? People do not actually look at you as you want or focus on what you’re doing. Some people tend to stagnate because of the opinions of others. In my experience, I found a large part of the reason is that in his mind, people will be very concerned about what he is thinking and doing, but the reality is that they are often busy with their own affairs, and will Tam