一天,战士小王正擦玻璃,叫战士小张帮忙移动一张椅子,小张没有吱声继续拖地板。小王顿时气不打一处来,把抹布往水盆一扔,溅得小张一身的脏水。这时,小张也火了,两人争吵了起来。为一些小事而突发其火,出言不逊、乱摔东西,这是“情绪短路”的一种表现。如电短路会损坏电器甚至酿成火灾一样,情绪短路既伤害别人,也伤害自己。其主要原因是自控与转移情绪的能力不强。这种能力与智慧水平有关,可说是“情感智商”。 One day, the warrior Wang is wiping the glass, asking the soldier Zhang to help move a chair. Zhang did not squeak and continued to drag the floor. Xiao Wang suddenly do not hit a place to throw the rags to the basin, splashed Xiao Zhang a dirty water. At this time, Zhang is also a fire, they quarrel up. Sudden fire for some small things, outspoken, chaos throw things, this is the “emotional short-circuit,” a manifestation. Such as electrical short circuit will damage the appliance or even lead to a fire, emotional short circuit not only hurt others, but also hurt themselves. The main reason is the ability to control and transfer emotions is not strong. This ability is related to the level of intelligence and can be described as “emotional intelligence.”