儿子上小学后,我发现他总是闷闷不乐,好像有许多愁事,经常没有食欲,去医院检查又没发现什么病。我便去访问他的班主任老师。老师反映说：“你的儿子有点古怪,不太合群,他经常是一个人在角落里发呆。有一次他似乎表示愿意与女孩同桌。”“你满足他的要求了吗?”“没有,因为我们根据儿童性教育原则,认为这个时期男女适当分离,对性角色的自我确认是有好处的。所以基本上是男女分桌。”这让我想起了幼儿园老师的一句话：“你儿子有点像女孩,总喜欢跟女孩子玩。”我当时不知这话是警告还是赞美。看来,现在真要琢磨琢磨儿子的心理了。 After my son was in elementary school, I found he was always depressed. There seemed to be a lot of worries. He often had no appetite and went to the hospital to check and find out what the disease was. I went to visit his class teacher. The teacher said: “Your son is a little weird and not too gregarious, and he is often a man in a corner in a daze. Once he seems to be willing to go with the girl.” “Did you fulfill his request?” “No, Because we are based on the principle of children’s sexuality education, we think that proper separation of men and women in this period is good for self-identification of sexual roles, so basically the table is divided between men and women. ”This reminds me of the kindergarten teacher’s remark:“ Your son is a little bit Like girls, I always like to play with girls. ”I was not warned or praised at this time. It seems that now really want to ponder the son’s psychology.