在壮乡,死了丈夫的女人不改嫁,又找男人上门入赘过日子的,叫作树尾相缠。这样的人家生活起来颇不容易,日子过得红火了,人家会说你老鼠尾巴长疮,火不热灰热。日子过得艰难了呢,人家又会说你树尾相缠,没根没基,本来就不能成气候。我奶奶对旧的礼教向来顶礼膜拜,而且一个崇尚从一而终的女人。她这一辈子生活很不幸,不幸的生活铸就了她从不向困难低头的刚烈性格。就在家乡解放那年,我爷爷为了 In Zhuang, the woman who died her husband is not remarried, but also looking for a man to go through the extravagant life, called the tail of the tree. Such people living up is not easy, thriving life, people will say you rat sore long tail, the heat is not hot. The days passed difficult, people will say you tree tail phase, no roots no basis, could not have become a climate. My grandmother has always worshiped the old courtesy, but also a woman who advocates a go-between. Her life is very unfortunate in her life, unfortunately, unfortunate life cast her never bow down to the stubborn character. In my hometown liberation that year, my grandfather in order