孩子到了两三岁以后,巳具备了一定的语言表达能力,能用语言述说自己的内心活动;注意力也有所增强,能够形成自己的愿望和要求了。加上这时孩子已能独立行走,与外部世界的接触日益增多。五彩缤纷的生活环境会刺激孩子的好奇心,引起孩子强烈的探求欲,因而,这时的孩子,往往会向父母提出各种各样的要求。这些要求是孩子智力发育中必然出现的现象,也是孩子一种正常的情感需要。但是,孩子的所有要求并非都是合理的,对孩子的不合理要求,家长若一味满足,便容易滋长孩子不良品格(如自私、任性等)的形成;若采用简单、粗暴的方式加以拒绝,又往往会伤害孩子的自尊,压抑其个性的发展。那么,家长应如何对待孩子的不合理要求呢? After two or three years old, the children have had certain language skills and can use words to describe their own inner activities. Their attention has also been enhanced, and their wishes and demands have been formed. Coupled with the fact that children are able to walk independently at this time, their contacts with the outside world are on the increase. The colorful living environment will stimulate the child’s curiosity, causing the child to seek a strong desire, therefore, at this time, children often make various demands to their parents. These requirements are inevitable phenomena in the development of children’s intelligence and are also children’s normal emotional needs. However, not all the requirements of the child are reasonable. If the child’s irrational demands are satisfied, parents may easily develop the child’s bad character (such as selfishness, self-willedness and so on); if rejected in a simple and crude manner, And often will hurt the child’s self-esteem, depressed the development of his personality. So, parents should treat children’s unreasonable demands?