在家庭教育中,父母一方面有意识地以言语与孩子交往,另一方面则又在自觉或不自觉地以一些非言语行为如目光、表情、服饰等与孩子交往。目光眼睛是非言语行为的主要工具。人们常说“眼睛是心灵的窗户”。因此,父母应懂得如何使用眼睛。对待孩子,家长应该始终保持亲切和蔼、信任而期待的目光。这样的目光,能使正在上进的孩子受到鼓舞,继续发奋努力;使遇到困难的孩子看到希望,增添信 In family education, on the one hand, parents consciously or unconsciously communicate with their children through words, while on the other hand, they consciously or unconsciously interact with their children through non-verbal behaviors such as eyes, facial expressions and costumes. Eye Eyes are the main tools of non-verbal behavior. People often say “eyes are the windows of the soul ”. Therefore, parents should know how to use their eyes. Treat children, parents should always maintain kind, kind, trust and look forward to. Such vision can be encouraged by the progressive children, continue to work hard; so that children who encounter difficulties see hope, add a letter