与人聊天是大苦事,也是大乐事。大苦的是逢知己的少,不投机的多,而更大苦的是,虽然不投机,但他既然来与你聊,谁半句打得住?得与其千句万句聊下去!咱们中国是礼仪之邦,碰到你烦之人来聊你烦之事,你都得打起精神,奉献万分热情,以示待客有道,素养深厚。鲁迅先生是反礼教最坚决者,但这个人情礼数一直不敢反,萧红曾说:鲁迅先生半个生命都耗费在无端聊天中,每天总是有一拨又一拨 Chatting with people is a big pain, but also a great pleasure. Big bitter is less every friend, not opportunistic, and more bitter is that, although not speculative, but since he came to talk to you, who played half a sentence? Have to chat with thousands of Sentences! China is a state of ceremonies. When you encounter people who annoy you to talk to your annoying things, you have to be energetic and dedication enthusiastic to show their hospitality and deep understanding. Mr. Lu Xun is the most resolute anti-ritual, but the etiquette has not dared to counterattack, Xiao Hong said: Mr. Lu Xun spent half a life chatting, there is always a wave of another day